Because so many people find themselves trying to balance a soul-sucking job with the dream of creating their own freedom, I wanted to deep dive into the solutions.
This question came from Peter, one of my students inside the Faceless Business Empire course:
If you’re feeling the same way—like your job is holding you back, like it’s impossible to build something when you’re already working 65+ hours a week—you’re not alone.
The truth is, it’s completely natural to want out as fast as possible. But here’s the tough part: going after the illusion of “fast money” often leads to shortcuts, chasing useless shiny objects, and burnout. You will often end up jumping from idea to idea and quitting before real success has a chance to show up.
The good news? There’s a smarter way forward. It’s about shifting your mindset, so you are able to use your job as fuel (not seeing it as a burden), and taking small, consistent steps that add up to something stable and long-term.
Let’s break it down:
Why “Fast Money” Thinking Backfires
It’s completely understandable. When you’re working 65+ hours a week, the idea of “quick wins” feels like the only option. You’re probably tired, frustrated, and just want to see something work—fast. On top of that, making money SLOWLY simply isn’t workable.
(The good news? Success doesn’t need to take years to start showing up… more on this in a moment.)
But here’s the problem: chasing “fast money” usually skips the foundation you need to build anything real.
When you don’t have a solid base, even small setbacks can feel like total failure. Suddenly, you’re bouncing between ideas, looking for that magic solution:
“This person’s crushing it on TikTok! Wait, now everyone’s talking about YouTube Shorts. Oh, hang on—maybe it’s Instagram Reels?”
That’s shiny object syndrome, and it’s brutal. You spread yourself thin, lose focus, and start to believe nothing works. But the truth is, success was possible—you just quit before it had a chance to show up.
The real fix? Slow down to speed up. It doesn’t mean you have to move at a snail’s pace. It means committing to one approach, laying a solid foundation, and taking consistent, small steps forward. Because when you have the right systems in place, you’ll start seeing results that last.
The point? Stop trying to “hack” your way there. Build something you can trust. Something stable and long-term that doesn’t crumble the second life throws you a curveball.
Even With AI, There’s a Learning Curve (And That’s OK)
Let’s be real—AI has made starting an online business easier than ever. It can help you create content, automate systems, and save time in ways that were unthinkable just a few years ago. Tools that once required entire teams or expensive software are now just a few clicks away.
But here’s the thing: when you’re brand new, there’s still a learning curve.
And that’s okay.
AI doesn’t replace the need to understand the basics—it just simplifies the process once you do. Think of it like learning to drive: the car makes it faster to get where you’re going, but you still need to know how to steer.
The good news? It’s not about being perfect or doing everything at once. Success comes from showing up and taking small, consistent actions that build momentum over time. Even if you can only carve out 10–15 minutes a day, you’ll make progress.
Because the truth is, momentum beats perfection every single time. And the learning curve? It gets easier with every step you take. Before you know it, you’ll be running systems that work for you—AI tools included—without the overwhelm.
The Secret to Staying Energized (Especially With 70-Hour Weeks)
When you’re already exhausted from your job, the thought of doing anything extra can feel overwhelming. It’s easy to think, “I don’t have the time or energy for this.”
That’s why purpose matters.
Purpose isn’t just motivation—it’s energy. It’s the thing that helps you push through when you feel like you’ve got nothing left. It works because purpose allows you to see your future, even if it’s hazy. It’s the KNOWING that if you keep learning and pushing that what you want will show up. (because unless you quit… it will!)
Here’s the reframe:
Your current job isn’t holding you back—it’s funding your future. That paycheck? It’s your fuel. It’s covering tools, courses, or even a mentor who can shorten your learning curve and get you to success faster.
And here’s the good news: you don’t need hours of extra time every day to move forward. Even 10 minutes can make a difference:
On your lunch break.
Right before bed.
First thing in the morning.
Use that time to:
Learn something small (watch a tutorial, read one helpful article).
Take one micro action (send an email, outline an idea, set up a tool).
Progress doesn’t have to feel huge to be meaningful. Tiny, consistent steps build momentum. And once you have momentum, things get easier. Purpose gives those 10 minutes direction—and direction gives you energy.
When you know every small action is a step toward the freedom you’re building, it feels lighter. You’re not just surviving—you’re creating something that works for you.
Build the Foundation: The Smarter Path Forward
If you’re tired of chasing “fast” money and coming up empty, here’s the truth: quick fixes rarely last. What you want isn’t just money—it’s stability, freedom, and something you can trust to grow over time. That means stepping back from trends and shiny objects to focus on what actually works.
Here’s the smarter path forward:
1. Choose One Direction and Commit to It
When you’re starting out, it’s easy to feel like you have to try everything at once—TikTok, Instagram, email, YouTube, digital products… the list never ends. But trying to do it all will spread you thin, burn you out, and leave you stuck.
Here’s the reframe: Pick one path. One direction. Commit to it.
Start by asking yourself:
What am I interested in or willing to learn? You don’t have to be an expert—you just need curiosity and consistency.
What matches my time and energy? If you’re short on time, something like audience-building with newsletters could be a better fit than constant content creation.
Example: Instead of jumping into five platforms, focus on one—like setting up a simple newsletter using Beehiiv. This becomes your home base. As you get better at it, you can expand without feeling overwhelmed.
2. Start Building an Audience or System That Can Grow With You
Everything in business comes back to the audience. If you focus on growing a small, loyal group of people who know, like, and trust you, the opportunities to make money will come.
Here’s why it matters:
Platforms change. Trends fade. But an audience—especially one that’s yours, like an email list—gives you a foundation no one can take away.
Small, consistent growth beats scattered effort every time. Even 5 new people a week adds up to hundreds by the end of the year.
Actionable Steps:
Start solving a problem or sharing value in a way that resonates with your audience. This could mean:
Tips, insights, or tools that make their lives easier.
Entertaining or relatable content that builds trust.
Collect emails or direct them to a space you own—like a newsletter, blog, or lead capture page.
3. Use Tools Like AI to Simplify and Speed Up the Process
Let’s be honest—there’s still work involved when you’re starting from scratch. But tools like AI can make that work 10x faster and easier.
How AI Helps:
Content Creation: You don’t need to stare at a blank page. Use AI tools to draft ideas, captions, videos, and blog posts.
Automation: Schedule content, follow up with your audience, and manage repetitive tasks without lifting a finger.
Clarity: AI can help you brainstorm, organize ideas, and make decisions faster.
The key? Use AI to save time, not skip the learning process. It simplifies the heavy lifting so you can focus on showing up consistently and getting better every day.
4. Trust That Building Something Real Takes Time (and That’s OK)
Here’s the truth no one talks about: building a stable, long-term business takes time. And that’s not a bad thing.
Let’s reframe what “taking time” actually means: It does not mean you’ll be grinding for 25 years before seeing any success. Most people—even starting with zero experience—can begin seeing results in 2–6 months if they stick to consistent effort in a single direction.
The people who succeed aren’t the ones who get it all perfect on day one—they’re the ones who refuse to quit. They take small, focused steps, trust the process, and keep showing up. Progress compounds. Every action builds momentum, and momentum builds success.
The key? Stick with it, even when it feels slow. Small wins add up faster than you think when you keep moving in the right direction.
What to remember:
You don’t have to get it all right—just get started.
Progress compounds. Even 10 minutes a day adds up.
Every tiny step builds the foundation that frees you in the future.
Focusing On What Works
If you want something that lasts, don’t chase what’s fast. Build something that you can deal with using minimal steps each week. Commit to one direction, grow your audience, use tools like AI to make it easier, and trust that every small step counts.
The smartest path forward? Focus on what works—and block out everything else.
Let’s be real: keeping up with the online business world can feel exhausting. Just when you think you’re getting the hang of something, it changes. What worked last year—or even last month—might already be outdated. Algorithms shift, trends fade, and platforms roll out new rules without warning. It’s no wonder most people feel like they’re constantly playing catch-up.
Here’s the hard truth: If you’re trying to figure everything out on your own, it’s easy to get lost in the noise. Outdated advice, recycled “hacks,” and shiny trends waste your time and energy. And when you’re already balancing work, family, and life, you don’t have a single minute to waste.
How to Stay Ahead:
The smartest move? Learn from people who are already in the trenches. A mentor or trusted source of up-to-date strategies can be a game-changer. Why? Because they’ve done the trial and error for you. They know what works right now—not six months ago—and they can help you sidestep the mistakes that slow most people down.
What This Looks Like in Action:
Focus on current, proven strategies that fit your goals (not the latest hype).
Use tools and systems that save you time instead of adding to the overwhelm.
Invest in guidance that keeps you on track and helps you adapt quickly.
The business world will always shift—that’s the nature of it. But when you stay connected to what’s working now, you’re not just surviving the changes—you’re ahead of them.
If you’re ready to build something real—something that can finally free you from the 9-to-5 grind—start here:
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